Saturday, September 24, 2011
Soy una misionera!!!
Last week, full of amazing experiences!!
Tuesday, August 30, 2011
Will you still love me if i come home with fleas??
Sunday, August 28, 2011
Dos Semanas!!!
Monday, August 22, 2011
HOLA!! 3 weeks to go in the CCM!!
PS
This is Megan :) to anyone following this, if you would like something to be passed on to erin at any time.. just comment on a post and i will make sure she knows what you said :)
Thursday, August 4, 2011
Semana Cinco :)
So! I was way sick on sunday! Something has been going around the CCM and everyone has been sick in some way or another! i had really bad aches and my comp was really nautious. I spent basically the entire day in bed and i havent done that in forever! It was nice though and i feel so much better now. while i was sick and half zonked i killed my first bug!! Zach and Karli imagine the reaction to the spider in judy's kitchen before my faerwell, combined with drugs in my system and you have the moment. It was a cockroach or something like it! First i threw my shoe, next i got up and tried to step on it but missed, and last i was screaming as i finally killed the thing! My comp was very entertained... i was also screaming the whole time and I'm in trouble!! The bugs are going to be HUGE in Xela compared to this one! oh well, i will just have to cope :)
We went contacting this past week and i LOVED it! Real people, real contacting, real missionary :) just to paint a picture.. it was pouring rain (the kind of rain in michigan when the drops aren't very big and yet you are still soaked!!) At one point i got sprayed by a passing car so the next time we came to a skinny sidewalk all three of us were running to avoid being hit by water, giggling all the way! Hna parker was in the back yelling, Oh my gosh! oh my gosh! It was so funny! Anyway, it was originally just going to be me and my comp but luckily a teacher ended up coming with us or we would have died! The teacher was great and told us to say hi to everyone and that is exactly what we did! i gave away my first BOM as a missionary!! His name was Jaime :) it was so awesome and my spanish was so great i couldnt believe it!! i told him what it was about and bore my testimony... all in spanish of course and he actually understood it! in the hour and a half we got 14 peoples addresses that want to meet with the missionaries later and gave away like 20 pamplets. One of the people we gave a Bom to was a maid who works in a house. Here they live with the family they are maids for so that was interesting and something i have never seen before. We talked to a bunch of security guards with their huge shotguns in their hands... that was fun! One man that was totally a golden contact too! His name is Abel, he is in Hna Parkers mission and said so many people had told him about their churches but nobody ever invited him and we did! So he is going this sunday and hopefully the missionaries will find him and start teaching his family. Hna Parker and i pray for him every day! Another fun experience contacting... we passed this woman trying to fix her car. something was wrong with the battery... our teacher Hna Morales went up to her and asked if she needed help. So Hna Morales moves some wires around and picks the battery up and sets it back down and tells them to start it! Of course since were missionaries, what do you think happened??? It started right away!! We walked away basically yelling... it was DIOS, DIOS!! (God!) It was so funny! Before this day i was starting to regret sending my blow dryer home and not getting a straightener. After this experience of what the life of a missionary is really like, I Quickly changed my mind :) You will get pictures of this great day eventually, but we arent allowed to send pics on the computer so i will have to wait until i am actually in the field. Ps Mom, you said i only had one more week here... I have three and a half!!! we are in provo for three and the CCM for six. Thankfully i love it here so six weeks is flying by! By the time we came back from contacting, my feet were stained black from my shoes and i truly understand what it means to be a missionary :)
Teaching here is so fun and i love it!! Yestereday i realized that Hna Parker and i have unity that is very unique, we have yet to see any other missionaries that can teach as unified as us. Yesterday we went to CRE (our pretend investigator that is a teacher here) and when we finally got in (she ALWAYS gives us trouble and i basically had to beg her to let us in by promising she would feel the spirit... funny!) and she said right off that she felt like god didnt love her because she had been fighting with her husband. We had planned to teach the plan of salvation and she said we had ten minutes, so i turned to Hna Parker... said ditch the lesson plan and moved forward on the fly! It was so fun and when Hna Parker didnt know where i was going with something, she just smiled (one of her greatest tools) We did so greay and it is amazing how much our spanish has improved! Teaching is my favorite part, but we do it so much that we never have time to reevaluate and figure out what we can do better! it is great though!
Last night was great, we had a fireside from a member of the second Quoram on the 70! It was great and unfortunately we had to use a translator. I can understand basically everything but i didnt want to miss anything! I learned last night that i can probably pick up more listening in spanish that english though... He is apparently really important in missionary work in Guatemala. You will have to look it up and let me know! I dont know what role he has played. I got my second letter today! This time my friend sent it through regular mail and it only took 2 weeks... I know that seems like a long time but mail is a coveted thing here and 2 weeks is fantastic! So i think the pouch is probably faster but i am not positive. If youi mail letters after next Wed make sure you send it to my mission home in Xela. Times up! Jordan, before you leave practice typing so you can type as fast as possible! 30 Min goes by so fast!! I am doing good and am loving my time here. i thank Heavenly Father for Hna parker every day! We laugh and giggle all the time and i love it!! i love you all and i will talk to you next week!!
love Hna Nelson
Wednesday, July 27, 2011
WEEK 2
Hola mi familia!!!
This week has FLOWN by! I thought the first few days felt like a few weeks, but this week has gone by so fast, and I bet the rest of the mission will seem like that... at least for the most part.
Thank you so much for all the letters and packages!! My roommates and companions now understand how much we like junk food in our family:) We have been enjoying treats and loving snacks to help us stay awake in classes! The letters are great too, so keep them coming! I know it seems ridiculous to write every day right now, BUT I leave the MTC in eight days and I will only really be able to hear from you once a week in emails, so I am going to enjoy daily letters while I can:) (hint hint) Also, PLEASE put dates on your letters! Dearelder doesn't print the dates on them and it is nice to know when you are writing them. Also, don't worry about sending them to my email as well. I get the letters here the same day or the day after, but don't check my email until Mondays so sometimes I check my email and it is all copies of letters I've already gotten.
Thank you to Grandma Della Mae for your note! Dad, will you make sure Grandma gets my email every week? I wanted so bad to make email lists before I left but time ran out!
Thank you SO much to Toni! She sent me chips and salsa from Chili's that I LOVED! My roommates and companions had a party that night because Hna Broadbent's (one of my companions... Hna Morgan is the other one) birthday is tomorrow and her roommates from school had sent her gormet cupcakes! We took some fun pictures and if I can get one of those SD adapter things that plug into a usb outlet, I will email them. I printed off some pictures and will put them in the mail to all of you today! We have a really great group of sisters going to Guatemala and a very fun district! (Zach or Dad, do you mind finding me one of those SD things and sending it before I leave? I think I remember Zach saying he had one...)
So I already have my travel plans!! We had the welcoming sister meeting yesterday since my first sunday was a fast sunday and next week we will have the leaving sisters meeting! I am already heading to Guatemala!! Who would have thought three weeks could go by so fast! I don't even know how to get around the MTC yet and rely completely on my companions! and we will leave before I even need to, so I am not too worried:) There are about 20 of us heading to the Guatemala MTC (they call it the CCM for future reference)all going to I think four of the five missions in Guatemala. We will all travel together on the 19th! We leave the MTC at about 4:30 pm and fly to Los Angeles. We have a three hour layover there and have a red eye flight to Guatemala. We should get in at 6:30am and I am fully expecting it to be a full day of missionary things:) We will probably go get our visas that day, but they don't waste time in missionary training centers! We will probably go straight to class!!!
Right now the gym AND temple are closed!! They are redoing the gym floor and the temple is closed for cleaning. So anything that we'd have in the gym is spread out (no gym time inside, all out side and YES I keep getting burnt! I need to put on my sunscreen but feel like I need to save it for Guatemala!.. all our devotionals are in classrooms and we can't even go use the exercise equipment like the eliptical since it is closed. Thank heavens we will be by the Guatemala City temple so we can hopefully go there!) Everybody acts like we should have all this extra time without going to the temple, but I still feel like we are running around all day trying to get everything done in time! I think it is because we are really striving to have exact obedience and doing everything like scheduling when we are supposed to. Also, since the gym is closed I don't get to experience the choir... so sad!!
Ok, my district! There are 11 of us! (There used to be 12, but my companion spoke portugues and moved to an advanced class) 6 of us are going to Quetzaltenango and 6 are going to New York South. The elders are so funny (sometimes immature) but have me laughing every day!
Kenzie Boshard is going to Portugal and is speaking portugues... we will leave the MTC the same day, I am not sure what time she flies out but we will probably not be at the airport together since she has much further to travel.
Pday last week was crazy!! Zach and Karli can appreciate the setting for laundry! You are sweating from the lack of air conditioning and heat of the dryers... you are surrounded by tons of people and there is a timer on the side of your computer counting down the seconds you have to finish! It is so intense!! You all know how much I hate combining my laundry and I was forced to combine whites and some colors... I was nervous the whole time that my garments would be blue!
(I just lost half my email.... gotta love those time limits!!)
Zach and Karli! Thank you so much for figuring out my kindle!! That was a huge relief! I would have cried if it was broken for good and not under warranty. THANK YOU! Also, Zach if you haven't already sent my ipod, will you put Dad's Marshall Mcdonald stuff on it? If you have, Dad could you send me copies of the cds if you still have them? Zach sent me a cd player so I'd be able to listen to them. If i didn't tell you, I do have a cord to charge them. Also, my roommates and companions loved the story of Harley going to the bathroom in your bed while you were asleep. It was our entertainment while enjoying chips and salsa and cupcakes! Don't let harley forget his favorite aunt:) Thank you for the pictures too! I told my companions I wanted to show them a picture of my nephew and then showed them harley... they loved it and told me my nephew is very hairy:) I haven't seen Karli's friend... maybe I will run in to her though. There are TONS of spanish teachers!!! Also, Karli mentioned in a letter how much she loved chocolate milk. One of the elders in our group (nickname el grade rojo... the big red, you will see who he is in the pictures and know why he has that nickname) anyway, he will down 4-6 8oz glasses of chocolate milk in the time it takes me to say my prayer over the food. He told me that at home he drinks a gallon EVERY DAY!! His poor mom! That is SO much milk!
Spanish is getting more difficult. We haven't quite passed my level from school but with all the new religious verbs and the old ones to review, I have a lot of practicing to do! I am having to study more diligently for sure!
Last night we had an amazing devotional! It was on finding joy in repentance and I LOVED it! We sang the hymn that has the same tune as go tell aunt rhody. It made me think of Helaman:) Anyway in the talk, the speaker said that William Tisdale who translated the bible invented the word repent. In the original hebrew version, the word was schub which means to turn to god and away from sin. Then in greek, the word is matanoi and it means a change of mind, fresh view of god, oneself and the world. the latin word (don't have that written down) means to feel regret... so with time, he told us that apostate christianity has turned repentance into a negative thing. I really enjoyed the talk and needed to hear it!!
This week we taught the first discussion in SPANISH! My companions are quite as advanced as I am in spanish so I really have to hold back when we are teaching. The first time I didn't do a good job and talked way to much so I am trying to let them do the talking. It is SO nice though because I am already getting to the point that I don't need to translate in my head, I just think in spanish if that makes sense.
Anyway, I have to run. Thank you all for your love and support! I LOVE YOU ALL! SO MUCH!!!
Talk to you soon:)
Love, Hermana NelsonHola mi familia!!!
This week has FLOWN by! I thought the first few days felt like a few weeks, but this week has gone by so fast, and I bet the rest of the mission will seem like that... at least for the most part.
Thank you so much for all the letters and packages!! My roommates and companions now understand how much we like junk food in our family:) We have been enjoying treats and loving snacks to help us stay awake in classes! The letters are great too, so keep them coming! I know it seems ridiculous to write every day right now, BUT I leave the MTC in eight days and I will only really be able to hear from you once a week in emails, so I am going to enjoy daily letters while I can:) (hint hint) Also, PLEASE put dates on your letters! Dearelder doesn't print the dates on them and it is nice to know when you are writing them. Also, don't worry about sending them to my email as well. I get the letters here the same day or the day after, but don't check my email until Mondays so sometimes I check my email and it is all copies of letters I've already gotten.
Thank you to Grandma Della Mae for your note! Dad, will you make sure Grandma gets my email every week? I wanted so bad to make email lists before I left but time ran out!
Thank you SO much to Toni! She sent me chips and salsa from Chili's that I LOVED! My roommates and companions had a party that night because Hna Broadbent's (one of my companions... Hna Morgan is the other one) birthday is tomorrow and her roommates from school had sent her gormet cupcakes! We took some fun pictures and if I can get one of those SD adapter things that plug into a usb outlet, I will email them. I printed off some pictures and will put them in the mail to all of you today! We have a really great group of sisters going to Guatemala and a very fun district! (Zach or Dad, do you mind finding me one of those SD things and sending it before I leave? I think I remember Zach saying he had one...)
So I already have my travel plans!! We had the welcoming sister meeting yesterday since my first sunday was a fast sunday and next week we will have the leaving sisters meeting! I am already heading to Guatemala!! Who would have thought three weeks could go by so fast! I don't even know how to get around the MTC yet and rely completely on my companions! and we will leave before I even need to, so I am not too worried:) There are about 20 of us heading to the Guatemala MTC (they call it the CCM for future reference)all going to I think four of the five missions in Guatemala. We will all travel together on the 19th! We leave the MTC at about 4:30 pm and fly to Los Angeles. We have a three hour layover there and have a red eye flight to Guatemala. We should get in at 6:30am and I am fully expecting it to be a full day of missionary things:) We will probably go get our visas that day, but they don't waste time in missionary training centers! We will probably go straight to class!!!
Right now the gym AND temple are closed!! They are redoing the gym floor and the temple is closed for cleaning. So anything that we'd have in the gym is spread out (no gym time inside, all out side and YES I keep getting burnt! I need to put on my sunscreen but feel like I need to save it for Guatemala!.. all our devotionals are in classrooms and we can't even go use the exercise equipment like the eliptical since it is closed. Thank heavens we will be by the Guatemala City temple so we can hopefully go there!) Everybody acts like we should have all this extra time without going to the temple, but I still feel like we are running around all day trying to get everything done in time! I think it is because we are really striving to have exact obedience and doing everything like scheduling when we are supposed to. Also, since the gym is closed I don't get to experience the choir... so sad!!
Ok, my district! There are 11 of us! (There used to be 12, but my companion spoke portugues and moved to an advanced class) 6 of us are going to Quetzaltenango and 6 are going to New York South. The elders are so funny (sometimes immature) but have me laughing every day!
Kenzie Boshard is going to Portugal and is speaking portugues... we will leave the MTC the same day, I am not sure what time she flies out but we will probably not be at the airport together since she has much further to travel.
Pday last week was crazy!! Zach and Karli can appreciate the setting for laundry! You are sweating from the lack of air conditioning and heat of the dryers... you are surrounded by tons of people and there is a timer on the side of your computer counting down the seconds you have to finish! It is so intense!! You all know how much I hate combining my laundry and I was forced to combine whites and some colors... I was nervous the whole time that my garments would be blue!
(I just lost half my email.... gotta love those time limits!!)
Zach and Karli! Thank you so much for figuring out my kindle!! That was a huge relief! I would have cried if it was broken for good and not under warranty. THANK YOU! Also, Zach if you haven't already sent my ipod, will you put Dad's Marshall Mcdonald stuff on it? If you have, Dad could you send me copies of the cds if you still have them? Zach sent me a cd player so I'd be able to listen to them. If i didn't tell you, I do have a cord to charge them. Also, my roommates and companions loved the story of Harley going to the bathroom in your bed while you were asleep. It was our entertainment while enjoying chips and salsa and cupcakes! Don't let harley forget his favorite aunt:) Thank you for the pictures too! I told my companions I wanted to show them a picture of my nephew and then showed them harley... they loved it and told me my nephew is very hairy:) I haven't seen Karli's friend... maybe I will run in to her though. There are TONS of spanish teachers!!! Also, Karli mentioned in a letter how much she loved chocolate milk. One of the elders in our group (nickname el grade rojo... the big red, you will see who he is in the pictures and know why he has that nickname) anyway, he will down 4-6 8oz glasses of chocolate milk in the time it takes me to say my prayer over the food. He told me that at home he drinks a gallon EVERY DAY!! His poor mom! That is SO much milk!
Spanish is getting more difficult. We haven't quite passed my level from school but with all the new religious verbs and the old ones to review, I have a lot of practicing to do! I am having to study more diligently for sure!
Last night we had an amazing devotional! It was on finding joy in repentance and I LOVED it! We sang the hymn that has the same tune as go tell aunt rhody. It made me think of Helaman:) Anyway in the talk, the speaker said that William Tisdale who translated the bible invented the word repent. In the original hebrew version, the word was schub which means to turn to god and away from sin. Then in greek, the word is matanoi and it means a change of mind, fresh view of god, oneself and the world. the latin word (don't have that written down) means to feel regret... so with time, he told us that apostate christianity has turned repentance into a negative thing. I really enjoyed the talk and needed to hear it!!
This week we taught the first discussion in SPANISH! My companions are quite as advanced as I am in spanish so I really have to hold back when we are teaching. The first time I didn't do a good job and talked way to much so I am trying to let them do the talking. It is SO nice though because I am already getting to the point that I don't need to translate in my head, I just think in spanish if that makes sense.
Anyway, I have to run. Thank you all for your love and support! I LOVE YOU ALL! SO MUCH!!!
Talk to you soon:)
Love, Hermana Nelson
Semana Cuatro (week 4)
Hola from Guatemala :)
WEEK 3 :)
I'm not sure where week two went... I'll figure it out and keep you posted :)
finally updating again!!! :)
ENJOY :)
WEEK 1
Thursday, June 9, 2011
Amazing Blessings
On Tuesday night, my little sister Megan and I were on our way up to Pocatello, Idaho to visit some family friends. We were at the turn off in Tremonton, Utah (a place I will remember forever) when I received a phone call from Bishop Tripp, the bishop of the ward I will be leaving from. He asked me if I was still planning on going. I jokingly told him that at the moment, yes, I was still planning on going. Bishop Tripp then told me he had some news for me. To be honest, I really had no idea what to expect. I thought perhaps he was going to tell me that I couldn't leave from that ward since I wasn't currently living in the area or something like that. His news was nothing but good news, and something that, for the first time in my memory, brought me immediately to tears that lasted the final hour and a half of our drive.
Bishop Tripp told me that a person (who wished to remain anonymous) dropped off a check to him that day to pay for my entire mission. My initial reaction was tears of joy and thankfullness, along with shock. I don't think I have ever been so greatful or humbled in my entire life. I had been stressing about the money for my mission. I knew my parents were going to take care of it, but again my control freak nature was coming in and I stressed about not actually being around to make sure it was getting paid. I even began considering pushing back my mission for six weeks, so I could make a bit more money at the hospital I work at. I hadn't seriously decided, but I was going to council with Bishop Tripp about the possibility of needing to push my departure date back. Now, not only have I received a very generous gift but I have also received a sure confirmation that my time to leave for Guatemala is June 29th.
I am not really sure what I have done in my life to receive this gift, but I am thankful beyond words. This gift has answered many prayers and has become the first of many blessings I know my family will receive through me serving a mission. This amazing ward has been so generous to me throughout my entire life, it was the ward I grew up in and will always be my family ward. Just thought I'd share this amazing experience with my family and friends, thank you for the love, prayers, and support you have always shown me!
21 days and counting:)
Wednesday, March 30, 2011
Quetzaltenango Guatemala!
(Mostly, other people have told me these facts...)
There is already a temple in Guatemala City.
It is beautiful!
It is a Spanish speaking mission, but many native people speak Mayan languages.
The weather is the same year round.... BEAUTIFUL! Wendell J. Ashton described it as the "land of eternal spring".
I will be going to Guatemala during rainy season (June, July, and August)
No washer and dryer:)
Guatemala has some of the biggest spiders in the world. (Thanks Brother Elms)
It is acceptable for sister missionaries to wear colorful clothes... thank you for the change in dress standards for sister missionaries.
There is a lot of poverty among the people.
My Mission President in my papers will not actually be my Mission President.... he goes home while I am still in the Provo MTC.
Missionaries were first sent to Guatemala in the summer of 1947... it was then part of the Mexico mission.
Central America is the believed location of the posterity of Lehi in the Book of Mormon.
Xelaju is the traditional name for the city of Quetzaltenango.
There is just a few fun facts! I am SO very excited about my call. I had been stressing about the possibility of being disappointed in my call, I couldn't be happier about my assignment:)
I am so excited to see how the people of Guatemala live, to offer my love and support of those struggling from day to day, and to learn the Spanish language which I already love!
In other exciting news... I had my recital a few weeks ago! It went well, and I am so happy to almost be done with school! Thank you to everyone for your love and support for the last few weeks, it means so much to me!
Thursday, February 24, 2011
Mission Call Guesses!!
Anyway, I created a google doc that people have access to... all you have to do is log onto it and edit it! Include your name, guess, reason for your guess, and your favorite treat (anybody who guesses correctly or closest will receive a treat on their doorstep) I did it this way so I can record peoples guesses!!
(again... have no idea how to make this a link, sorry you will have to copy and paste)
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1zSq-VgJVP0rijOSZLrY65ljuTFQqrApaBo_g0nhJ_7c/edit?hl=en
Guess away:)
Tuesday, February 15, 2011
Truth of A Fortune Cookie
My negative view of fortune cookies was changed briefly, when I opened a fortune cookie on Monday. It was Valentines Day, I had gone to institute and nobody was there! (AKA no free Pizza from Brother Elms) So, I had three options:
1. Quiznos
2. Panda Express
3. A healthy salad or sandwich from the cafe in Pierpont Commons
As it was Valentines Day (a day for eating unhealthy things such as candy) I decided to go for Panda Express. This was a surprising choice for me, I don't appreciate Panda nearly as much as I used to. This, likely because of over use in high school and my freshman year here at U of M. I got fried rice, orange chicken, and mandarin chicken. (if your mouth is watering... trust me, it wasn't that great) As I was checking out I almost forgot my fortune cookie! Thankfully the girl working called out to me, "Don't forget your fortune cookie!" I took it and the thought crossed my mind... I think my life would have gone on just fine without this fortune cookie.
Anyway, I finished my mediocre lunch while reading on my Kindle. (best reading device EVER) Then, as I was gathering my things to leave, I again almost forgot my fortune cookie. I glanced back at the table and there it was. I opened it, half expecting it to be some ridiculous comment about how I'd find love by the end of the week.
(No, this isn't the fortune cookie that changed my outlook on fortune cookies)
I opened my fortune cookie and here were it's words of wisdom:
Yes, it now resides in my journal
Now to some of you this may seem like any, ridiculous fortune cookie. For me it is very significant! I have told a few people, but not everyone! I am officially going to serve an LDS mission as soon as I graduate in May. My papers are done, and all I have left is my interview with the Stake President. This fortune cookie was a pleasant surprise, and very fitting since I had just had my interview with my Bishop the day before:) Not only was my fortune cookie a pleasant surprise, it was a much needed pick me up from a stressful day.
So, a few things I have learned this week...
1. Fortune Cookies might have some, occasional value
2. Never underestimate the probability of receiving valuable fortune cookie
3. Fortune Cookies have the potential to brighten a bad day
4. God works in very mysterious ways sometimes
5. Many people are VERY excited about me serving a mission and all of them hope I will serve where they served:)
Look forward to hearing about my mission call in a few weeks! (fingers crossed and prayers offered that it will come while my family is visiting for my senior recital!)
Monday, January 31, 2011
Dating Advice From An 8 Year Old
I have loved living with them for the last year and a half, and will miss them very much when the school year is through!! In the time that I have lived with Miran and Helaman, I have learned that Helaman is quite the advice giving boy. You ask him any type of dating question and he will always give you an honest, and generally accurate answer.
Last year, Helaman instructed my friend Bingyu that she needed to wear a red dress, red shoes, and a red shirt to get a man. Bingyu... have you purchased those yet??
A few months ago, Helaman told Miran that she needed to look for five things in a man. If a man has these five things, according to Helaman, he is ready to take your heart into his heart. This is deep stuff people!! He said that a man needed these five traits:
1. Sense of humor
2. Caring
3. Loving
4. Trust
5. Respect
When Miran asked if she could change the order, Helaman told her no. Apparently this is the order it was meant to be in:)
So, three or so weeks ago Miran and I asked Helaman how to get a kiss from a man. (Important to note that, in Helaman's mind, kissing and getting married are the same thing) So, without further ado... Helaman's 15 step "get a kiss" dating advice!!(Some of these required explaining... Helaman's explanations are almost as funny as the advice)
1. You have to learn his senses (explanation: what he likes! Smell, looks, and don't frown)
2. Never let him read the journal (I was writing all of this down in my journal and he was afraid somebody might read the wrest of my journal)
3. Never fall in love with another man after you fell in love with that man (Enough said!)
4. Never dress up wrong (explanation: crazy hair or a color he doesn't like)
5. Use wise choices [explanation: how you make your moves... and stuff (explanation: moves is how you talk in order or eat in order. His example was if there is lobster or chicken, eat the salad first)]
6. Don't feel embarrassed (explanation: when you are going to do all your moves)
7. **** Ladies! Prepare, this is my favorite and according to Helaman, the ABSOLUTE most important!****
DO NOT let another woman fall in love with your man, it will distract him from marrying you!
8. Do not wear long dresses (explanation: you might trip and that would ruin your date)
9. Do not make him mad (explanation: he will execute the date, meaning kill it)
10. Help him when he drops his stuff, he will like you if you help him
11. Do not wear long high heels (explanation: you could trip like the dress and make a mistake again)
12: Wear something fashionable [Helaman's idea of fashionable: short dress- to the knees, sparkles on the dress, and last... (imagine him staring at me while he thinks of one last thing to be fashionable) Don't wear glasses! Wear those things you put in your eyes (he meant my contacts)]
13. Don't burp (explanation: because Helaman burps a lot)
14. Don't have a wrinkled dress
15. Do it on a good day (explanation: on a day that you have no plans)
Living with Helaman brings laughter every day! Who would have thought an 8 year old could be so brilliant! With Valentines coming up, I hope all of you can take advantage of his dating advice:)